SD After Wreaking Havoc is "Over It"! No Apology Offered!
DH has been pushing for a meeting. When he calls SD 32 about this meeting she states that she doesn't want to discuss the "show incident". She states "I'm over that. What I want to discuss is the fact that SM will not let BDs sleep over at my house!"
I assume she realizes that there is no way that she will look like anything other than an over-reactive fool if she discusses the show incident so she has now zeroed in on a new area of complaint!
SD stated that she was lied to about why BDs could not sleep over at her house. I do not know where she percieved this as I have not lied to her. The few times my youngest BD was asked we simply turned it around and asked the step grand children to sleep at our house instead. I told my youngest daughter that she could not go to SD's house until such time as her father and SD worked out their differences. SD stated to DH that I had no right to tell BD this as it resulted in treating her - the SD - differantly!
I maintain that if she was so concerned about being treated differantly she should not have acted in such a callous manner when his mother died in an effort to coherce DH to give her his inheritance! If she had not chosen to act without any morals I would not now feel I had to protect BDs from exposure to her.
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Can you tell us a little more about the "show incident?"
Was this when your mother-in-law died? I'm very sorry about her death.
Read my first blog dated 8/11/09 for a descrip. of show incident
My first blog today gave a lengthy description of the "show incident". Even now it seems unbelievable to me that SD acted in this manner. My MIL had passed away about 4 months before the "show incident" so tensions at that point had already been high for several months. They had stopped talking to their Dad a week after the service for his mother. I have discovered that you really don't know someone until you have to go through "probate" with them!
Thank you so much for your expression of sympathy. I think about my MIL often.
I am most sorry for my DH that he was not allowed the time to grieve before SS and SD started this latest but most outrageous tirade!
Stop the drama/insanity
As suggested on your previous blog, I would completely disengage. I would tell both skids why. They treat you and DH like dirt. They are manipulating both of you like puppets on a string and enjoying every minute.
Don't take their calls, don't give them money, don't offer them any explanations. Explain that you will be willing to have a relationship with them when they treat you like human beings. Hang up on them if they come up with any more drama crap.
Really, you poor SM. I don't know how long you have been putting up with this but I truly feel sorry for you. I would protect myself and BDs from these highly manipulative and nasty skids. I would completely eliminate them from my life. DH should have put his foot down long ago. If he won't do it today, I would completely stop talking to them myself and let him continue to be their doormat.
"Evil Stepmothers aren't born, it comes with the territory"