he has no relationship with sd and it seems to only be dwindling each visitation. no matter that he calls her constantly, he never gets to talk to her. when they hang up, they used to have this really sweet thing they would say before they hung up, nothing for three weeks now. it's like bb is brainwashing her and sd is getting further and further from dh. it is breaking dh's heart and on top of that, all these lies bb keeps spewing and all the court dates...it is just too much. he said he wants to tell the judge that this whole visitation thing is a freaking joke. it is! i mean, who has the time or the energy to go back to court every other week? bb has kept sd from dh soooo many times!!! and she has made up lie after lie after lie. it's just insane. so i told dh to do what he wanted to do and i really think he is going to step back. if sd wants to see him, great, if not, oh well, kind of thing. i mean, bb is tearing apart the wondeful relationship they used to have. and bb even told dh that all he was was a sperm donor. she is such an evil piece of shit who doesn't deserve the air we breathe!
but i'll leave that decision up to god ultimately.

so i know many of you will take this as 'giving up' and i am really torn. i mean, we have been trying and trying for 8 years and look where it has gotten us...nowhere! we're going backwards! because bb is lowering her already-low standards and badmouthing us to sd!
oh, whoa is us.
it could always be worse, it could always be worse, it could...