We went on a week long vacation just the two of us & the minute we get back SS has to come over for his weekend. First I was asked for it to be extended & then another extension & on the second extension I asked BF if he would take him home Friday to have the weekend to ourselves.I was lied to & then my home turns into a warcamp. I went out with friends all weekend & enjoyed myself.Yesterday I come home to an apology & flowers & kisses & BF wants to makeup.Im not into that makeup stuff.Treat me right or forget it. When my home was a warcamp over the weekend..I booked myself a cruise in the winter & have asked a few girlfriends to join me. I am wondering how long it will take me to get over yet another episode of being treated as the insignificant other? How long does it take you to get over it? Its time for me to spend much more time with my friends & less time trying to keep trying to make my home situation good. Let BF do some work on it!!!!