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Do your IL's still have BM and her family on their FB pages

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Submitted by littlemommy on Fri, 10/28/2011 - 10:00pm

Ohh FB the root of all drama Wink FIL (who I've previously complained about in length) refuses to delete BM and her inbred family from his friends list bc GOD FORBID he miss a status update or pic of SD, he is down right obsessed. I hate that these people are on his page, bc he posted pics of DH and I's son shortly after he was born and I can't stand the fact that they can go to his page and see them. Does anyone happen to know if I block them if that prevents them from seeing tagged pictures of me on FIL's profile?

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Submitted by sonja on Fri, 10/28/2011 - 10:25pm

UGH know the feeling!
FDH's family has tried to add BM before but FDH made a huge fuss and got her deleted. Truth be told they all like me much more, but I know how that feels for them to be all up in the old business.. hello hes moved on!

BUT! BMs Mom has somehow copied FDH's PROFILE PICTURE onto her wall in a status.. so everytime FDH changes his profile picture it shows changed ON her wall! She even had the balls to ask FDH why he always posts BS's picture on his profile pic but never SD's.. omg lady get off it!

Id have DH demand that connection be removed. My FDH and his mom are currently in a tiff and he deleted her off facebook so she cant even access his pics of the kids..

Id be so pissed if people had been spreading my news on FB, all the more reason why I said no one at the hospital when I was having BS!

Have you tried blocking her? Since their technically FILs pics Im not sure, but if your tagged and youve blocked her.. then maybe she cant see them?

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Submitted by littlemommy on Sat, 10/29/2011 - 9:17am

OH yes! BM has been blocked for a long long time and I recently also blocked BM's mother and sister, who FIL also has on his FB. DH has already told him it was inappropriate to have them as friends, but FIL ignored him as usual. I hate to defriend FIL tho bc I like to keep an eye of what pics of my son he is adding.

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Submitted by sonja on Sat, 10/29/2011 - 2:15pm

Last option just might be to 'report' those pics that you dont want anyone seeing. If he cant unfriend her he doesnt need to be posting pictures that you dont want to be public.

I dont want BM seeing my BS either, I didnt want FDH taking him to dropoff/pickup for a while because I didnt want her face all up in the truck checking him out.

Of course FDH sent her a pic to show SD when we were at the hospital (wtf?) but whatever.. FDH and BM arent facebook friends because she doesnt need to be all in our business and checking out our photos. Same goes with FIL. He should know better!

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Submitted by littlemommy on Sat, 10/29/2011 - 4:51pm

}:) Hahaha I've thought about reporting him so FB removes the pics, that would sure start a shit storm

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Submitted by godess-clueless on Sat, 10/29/2011 - 2:53am

I have been married to my husband 13 years now. He had a brief 7 year marriage that ended over 32 years ago. I find it amazing that out of state relatives all have the ex and her sister on their facebook friends. Even more surprising is that they were not friends until facebook came along. Even the now adult nieces and nephews of my DH have them as friends. That generation of people were not even born until long after the DH and she were divorced.
My thinking is that it is more of a territorial attitude. She makes sure it is known that she is still attached to the family by way of the children she had with DH. { Even though she went onto have 2 more divorces and more children}
At one time I felt close to these many relatives. Now I have no contact. If they can not see how rude it is to a present wife to pull a friend from 32 years past then their is no room in the family for me. Let their "friend " loan them money, rehab their next home and provide their next family reunion.