3 years ago the courts turned my step son over to my husband (his father) and myself, at first I was a little upset simply because I was about done raising kids, then I had to step back and remind myself that I didn't just marry my husband but when I married him that meant I accepted his children as well. So I embraced this whole new adventure I was about to be on. When he moved in and soon realized he had a pretty prominent case of ADHD going on, poor personal hygiene habits and a few other troublesome habits. He was 10 at the time we got him.