help I need to vent. I married my husband about 2 years ago but have been involved with him and his kids about 5 years.  He has a 22yo with 3 kids of her own, due to drug use she lost custody of but completed programs and received her kids back. She now only smokes marijuana.  The babies dad is a drug addict who is in and out of jail for hitting her. Next is the 20yo who is the father of a 2yo. Btw no one works. He is a heavy pot smoker. Also neither have graduated high school.