Ever since I moved in with my partner 5 years ago, my stepson has been a difficult one to deal with. He is rude and manipulative with alcohol and drug problems. He has no respect for me from day one and calls me a gold digger while my partner is hardly a rich man and owns an old house we live in. Early this year, my partner told him to leave due to his escalating alcohol issues. He is now 23 years with a job. At the time, he became aggressive and verbally abusive. In the end, I called the police.