This is my first blog post, and it is going to be LONG. A little background: FH has a 12yo daughter, and I have a 14yo daughter and 8yo son. FH and I have lived together a little over a year now. His divorce began about 4 or 5 years ago, and was finalized almost 3 years ago. Mine was finalized about the same time as his, and we met a few months after the "divorce dust" settling for both of us.