I just told my husband that I can no longer stand to be around one of his kids. He has been driving me crazy and is intentionally doing things to upset me in hopes that I will leave his father. But that didn't happen. His father will not be leaving me and is in the process of finding new ways to get together with his kids on holidays without me...which is fine with me. I can go see my own kids on holidays if I want. He has 6 kids. Only 2 kids are under 18 y.o. One is the problem. Also the 20 y.o. is a problem. I just resolved this problem. Anybody else work it out this way?