It's been about 1.5 years since I moved so DH could be by his kids. BM moved outta nowhere. There's no CO please don't ask about one because trust me I have and it's been nothing but hurt.

I'm beginning to go nuts. I've been getting there because of the distance to family and friends but the nail in the coffin was this weekend. 

So SD6 normally overnights til Sunday morning EOW . For some random reason. After we had our usual light hearted chats and DH tells her it's bed time she pulls SD3s I miss my mom card.

We have SD6 this weekend. SD4 is MIA which at this point I think my husband is actually not just allowing but encouraging

I think because it's been a year of trial and a loooot of error he just doesn't want to deal with it unless it's a short visit

Welp in May my sister let me know both girls are invited to her Halloween wedding 2020. Extremely lavish - they already married court house wise but my mother is a weirdo and wanted to have a big hurrah. 

Follow up from the last blog: me and DH had a talk about tone and it went well. He agreed to try better and at least he's pointing out the issue vs ignoring it

Well DHs family came over. His dad, sister , and bil

It went really really well.it was nice to sort of vent the issues with DH, BM , and the skids when DH was out for a bit.

They like me a lot. Father was a heavy heavy Russian accent so I had to ask for a redo sometimes when he spoke but we got along well

So the girls were over tonight. We all went grocery shopping. They ate their favorite foods. We got them fruit and ice cream which they ate happily.

Went on a walk to look for frogs. Found a few. Everything downstairs is set for them. Child Catcher texts if she can say goodnight

This is always a loaded question for us. The youngest has crazy PAS at this point . But at the same time we thought it was fair.

Well youngest of course wants to go home. Fine. We are honestly so used to it.