}:) :? my SS 4th bday is coming up and BM hasnt said anything about his party. she mentioned to him that he was going to get lots of presents from everyone on his bday but we arent sharing his bday with her. she had plenty of time to set up her own party. Theres no way I am spending all of our money just so she can try to get credit for it. PLUS her FAMILY are all a mess and i dont want them there!