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Submitted by kristykay on Mon, 09/23/2013 - 2:48pm

I need your thoughts as I feel like I am in the middle of this mess and a fresh perspective would be reaffirming or help me see in a new light. I found a note on the floor of my son's room and it read "I hope you fall in a home and die you RETARD!" So I brought the note to the attention of all 4 kids in our home (I recognized the handwriting) and asked who wrote it. I looked my "step-daughter" in the eye as I asked and she said I don't know who wrote it. So then, I mentioned I know the hand writing is female and to simplify, we have 2 boys and 2 girls here.

Defeated and done

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Submitted by kristykay on Mon, 09/23/2013 - 2:47pm

I have been a member for awhile and this is my first post. I have 2 step children, step daughter is 12 and step son is 18. My husband's ex-wife has mastered turning the kids against me. No matter what I do, it is never right and is often twisted into something negative/ugly. I am feeling completely defeated today. The attempts at being a part of their lives are done. I feel bad, but I am to a point where I am completely disconnecting. It has been a long 9 years. My SD doesn't even speak to me. She has a dance recital tonight and this is the first time I ever told my husband I am not going.