So, here I am, little ole me. I'm 36, been married to DH for over 6 years and my SD is now 15. She and I have an excellent relationship and I love her to pieces. When DH and I married, SD was living with her mother in their grandparents home. DH and I picked her up every other weekend (3.5 hours away from the house) to spend time. They had joint custody. A little over a year later, grandma passed away which now meant that BM had to be the mom. She decided to move to TN with her then boyfriend and proceeded to remove SD from the state. We were not happy.