Sooo almost 5 years on from when my boyfriend and I moved in together along with the 3 step kids we know have 2 together. On the outside it all seems fine but slowly it seems to be tearing me apart. I have put all my effort into making the SK's a home they can feel comfortable in and are now happy to come to BUT I am so very very tired of parenting them when their own parents do little if anything to support all the good progress I've made with them.