I have never talked about this but i am to the point I take it anymore.I have 4 kids that mean everything to me and my hubby as a 12 year old daughter that comes 2 weekends out of the mouth whdn her mom will let her. He hasnt seen her in 3 mouths and now she is starting to call again and wanting to come next weekend. Him and I dont fight and till she comes and start shit with she will hit my kids call them names and make the weekend just hell and we are not like that we are always doing fun thing but it is hard when that isnt 1 of us in a good mood.