I've been with my husband for 9 years.  2 years married.  Biomom to one son who is 18 and away at college.  My husband has two kids, daughter 12 and son 14.  On my memories on facebook I'm seeing the big halloween party we let the kids have in 2017.  All the kids, all their friends (my husband has another daughter who is now 18 but stopped coming around almost two years ago....she was doing things she shouldn't and had rules in our house).  We had 28 kids in our house for that party.  I planned it, deocrated it while kids were at school. I did fun food. Nerf gun wars.  Wii Dance.