I really need to vent and no one really seems to have any answers. Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. He has a 14 year old daughter that he shares joint custody. Now mind you his child is the result of a one night stand with a women he can't stand. When I aksed him why he slept with her then his comment to me was that he was drunk and he knew she was easy. Fast forward...... I am a single mother of a wonderful 9 year old who has no relationship with her father (his choice since she was 4). I have raised my daughter to always be respectful and caring.