Ok y'all, I'm new here, and like everyone else, I am needing some support. I have been married for 3 years, I have a 6yo stepdaughter and a almost 2 year old son of my own. I LOVE being a mom, but I HATE being a stepmom. I get so annoyed by her over little things. It's to the point now that I am never happy around her. and she is here all the time. Her bio mom is on drugs and only has supervised visits every other weekend. Her dad (my hubbs) works a lot and has a lot of hobbies so that leaves me as her primary caregiver most of the time. My son adores her.