I can’t believe how the years have flown by. It’s almost 10 years ago that I came to Steptalk to vent regularly.. Now all my children are adults and out of the house. So now what do I have from all this with BM? A suitcase full of court documents, sitting in my closet collecting dust. My husband and I always thought we would save them to show SS, the truth. Needless to say he could care less what we went thru. Nor does have any desire to know the entire truth. He just thrives on what his mother has fed him his entire life.