My husband is sweet, sensitive, kind, trusting and totally naive to the conniving, manipulative, selfish women in his life. And I include myself in that statement...

I am DH's third wife.

I met him when I was 14 and at high school. He followed me around and walked me home, but I liked bad boys and he was quiet and shy, so I ignored him until eventually he went away. He later married BM1. 20 years later, both separated and me with two kids of my own, we met up again. This time, I could see him for the beautiful soul that he is and I believe that even with all his 'baggage', our marriage makes us both better people. He's worth it. And to be fair, I have some baggage myself.

But beautiful soul or not, he can be such a dumbass some times!

BM1 wants the world to know what a bad father he has been and is brimming with hatred, but it's BM2, the one who is supposedly the 'nice one' that gives us the most grief. She specialises in tears and guilt trips and hubby gives in every time, not wanting the skids to 'suffer'.

The moral of the story is this; that quiet, shy boy in high school may well grow up to be a wonderful, caring and attractive guy. Snap him up NOW before he has time to collect psycho ex wives.