New to site but at the end of my rope. Found out Stepson was a drug addict paid for rehab and now we are paying for another program since he was recently diagnosed as being bipolar. His name is mentioned and my husband and I get into fights. He makes excuses for him all the time. He was thrown out of house now sponging off of some friends. No job, no plans to get a job, just sits around and feels sorry for himself. My stepson used and maninpulted me for years for money. Does not care about me at all. Sends text message looking for pity - tells everyone I hate him.