So in January I gained custody of a young (13) teenage girl from a very abusive and horrible situation.

My grown SDs are 35 and 37.  (I have been their SM for over 20 years.  

We also have a 26 year old daughter, mine biological, adopted by my husband.

We have an 18 year old son together,

So my 35 year SD is married (#3) no judgement.  Has a 16 year old son, and 11 year old daughter.  Her Hubs has a 15 year old son (he has total custody..)  They now have a 7 month old baby boy.