I have been married to my husband for 22 years. We married when his son was 8 and his daughter was 6. We co parented every other weekend, holidays, and summer vacations. We have weathered many storms during these years with both children but I feel like we are once again in storm mode. My SD, who is a self proclaimed daddy's girl lived with us until age 25. Over those yards she worked off and on but would never keep a job long before quitting or getting fired. She would not clean her room, help around the house or contribute in anyway.