I'm 25 years old and I married a guy who is divorced with three small boys 7,5,&3. At first things were going smoothly but as time went on things seemed to become a lot harder. I find myself almost feeling resentful towards the kids since they take up almost half his time. I get one day a week to spend with him other then a few hours at night after our 12 hour shifts at work before bed. I also find myself on every other weekends when he gets them I'm trying to find things to do by myself so I can be alone.