A BIOD seeing the light of BM and SS
I couldn't think of a better title?
It goes to show that even though WE as SM's (& SD's) are painted to be evil...there ARE times that it is discovered that we were right all along.
Once upon a time I was deeply in love with a man that had a SS(who was 7 at the time) and he had a WICKED BM that self admitted that because my Ex left her when there son was a baby that she would never let him find peace.
It wasn't just the BM that was a nightmare though..the SS was spoiled rotten by dad and babied by mom...
SS could do no wrong, while my BD did everything wrong in his eyes. Even when seeing it with his own eyes he would never blame SS.
WE broke up for other reasons..but we always fought over SS. He thought I just hated SS..no matter how much I would try to communicate with him about SS's behavior..
Well a few months ago I get a call from him that his NEW wife had divorced him SOLELY because of SS and BM..she spoke in court and actually said that she HATED SS and that he was a spoiled little "pussy"...SS is now 11. I had to laugh..my EX was sooo distraught to realize that his precious perfect angel was actually a manipulate (fueled by the BM) little mamma's boy. She even went as far as ask the court to have separate visitation days from her daughter (they had a baby together) and his son..because of his behavior. That I can't condone, but it just justifies me to know that FINALLY he has seen the light!
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I've always tried to say
That it is not the SK's that I resent, it is the way they are being raised. Parents really have blinders on when it comes to their children. i hope when I have kids, that I will not be blind to their faults. There have been many times when I have had to point out to FH how much his little girl is trying to manipulate him. He at first chose not to hear it. It took OSD coming to me before I sat him down and lit into him. We still have moments when he'll go "My baby..no never!! She would never do that!!" I just look at him, and he'll say, okay, maybe she will.
FH and I have a pretty great relationship, but we do fight about the SK's. Not about THEM, but the way they are being raised.
Wow! I cannot believe she
Wow! I cannot believe she said that in court. That has to be an interesting situation.
there is alot
more to the story..but that is the heart of it..she also thought that since she had his child now that she would control him..even to the point of controlling his relationship with his son.
SHE will be an EVIL BM...lol...to whomever he ends up with next.
"He grew up in my heart, not my belly"