Doctor update!
Big surprise, SS does NOT have Elhirs-Danlos. We did take his phone and explained why we were going and why we didnt want him to call his mom until we were done. SS's 1/2 sister called about 4 times, BM called. We just didnt answer.
After talking to doctors in the hallway we find out she called the clinic and demanded he not be seen. They told her that dad has rights and they will see SS. She must have used a gps tracker. That was the only way to know we were at that children's hospital. That is the level of crazy we are dealing with.
Oh well... now to see what the lawyer says is our next move...
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Did SS's phone go to the
Did SS's phone go to the doctor (whether in his possession or not)? Because she could easily have tracked his phone. If she's gone further than that, and has planted a GPS tracker somewhere on his person or in his other possessions, then all I can say is WOW.
I'm glad to hear that he doesn't have the disease (not that any of us ever expected that he would).
What, if anything, are the doctors who saw him willing to do for you legally? Do they have an opinion on the Munchhaussen by Proxy thing?
The phone was in my purse so
The phone was in my purse so we are thinking GPS for sure. But she would have had to call the main hospital line and tracked us down like that... crazy!
The doctor is writing us a letter so we will see what it says!
Wow, she really does not want
Wow, she really does not want it proven that the kid is not really sick. What a basket case.
Well of course not. Having a
Well of course not. Having a sick child is attention and control. SHE becomes more important if the child is sick. It's an illness that SHE has.
Oh, believe me, I know.
Oh, believe me, I know.
When my SD was about 6, BM gave her an OTC medicine that she KNEW SD was allergic to, so that she would have a seizure. This was an attempt to get DH (BF, at the time) to go back to her. Bitch is crazy.
To this day, she has my SD convinced that she is incompetent and will always have to depend on her. BM gets to be the martyr, DH gets to be the asshole.
OMG! That is insane!
OMG! That is insane!
Wow your BM makes mine look
Wow your BM makes mine look human!
Thank GOD he does not have
Thank GOD he does not have the illness BM wanted him to have. Glad the Docs kept the appointment. BM did not have authority to cancel anything but I am NOT surprised she didnt try.
Expect BM to play the poor poor bm just trying to be a good MOM.
Hmmm so your bm has her Minions doing her dirty work too ie 1/2 sister calling.
I cant tell you what to do but moving forward there is no way that phone would be allowed in my home.
If it IS in the home, it
If it IS in the home, it should be turned OFF. BM can call her DH's phone or SS's phone can be turned on at specific times for scheduled calls.
That beeyotch is nukkin futz!!!
So, big question...
What did your SS say and/or how did he react when he found out he didn't have this disease?
He seemed pretty happy... a
He seemed pretty happy... a little confused
Poor kid. As it sinks in his
Poor kid. As it sinks in his feelings about it may get...stronger? I can't imagine how he must be feeling.
Last night his 1/2 sister and
Last night his 1/2 sister and mom were texting him and saying that the "all clear" is wrong becasue the doctor doesn't have all the facts. What facts??? It was a physical exam! They took the family history. We told the doctor that it is believed that 1/2 sister may have it. But SS does not. He isn't able to hyper extend. He has never had a dislocation. He doesn't have brusing. He doesn't have pale, milky, sensititve skin. He doesn't have Elhors-Danlos!
I am just evil enough
I would take SS phone and leave it on a city bus, just to watch BM go more crazy. *diablo*
OMG Hilarious!
Enjoyed your creative idea.
How about on garbage day put it in the bin on the street... GPS will look like skid is at home... then big truck comes and, like Hulk does... SMASH!
HAHAHA! If it wouldn't make
HAHAHA! If it wouldn't make SS hate us, I would love to do this!
GPS tracking of her child..
GPS tracking of her child...crazy. I bet if we had the ability to jump back in time to when these BMs were pregnant and tell them they would eventually be so controlling they would resort to GPS tracking their kids when they are with their fathers, they would laugh at how outrageous it sounds....
The GPS tracking is REALLY
The GPS tracking is REALLY bothering me! I dont know what to do. Dh and I have to talk about it tonight.
The GPS would really bother me too.
I am extremely private and the thought of someone knowing where I am would freak me out. The phone should never leave your house. If you can't trust SS not to take it, put it in a lock box. If would be ok to let him use it at the house if that is your norm - but I would never take it out of the house.
If there is an emergency and BM needs to talk to him, she can call DH or the house landline if you have one. Unless it is written in the CO that SS has to have access to his cell at all times, you should be able to do this.
I would also be tempted to leave it on a bus, or some other place where it would drive her crazy. The only way she could confront would be to admit she was using a tracker or tracing the phone.
Sorry all this is happening, you must be exhausted. What was SS's response on finding out he doesn't have the disease? I see no reason for your DH not to be totally honest about what is going w/BM and medical issues. He can do it without "disparaging" BM by just telling SS the facts with no judgemental.
What this woman is doing, is
What this woman is doing, is child abuse.
Yes, yes it is. Now it is
Yes, yes it is. Now it is just waiting to see if a judge will actually let our lawyer talk this time.
What a lot of these parents do is child abuse
Unfortunately, the courts don't seem to care all that much. It's so frustrating.
Your BM is bat shit crazy
Your BM is bat shit crazy
GPS tracking on the phone
Is pretty normal in and of itself - especially on a child's phone. Helps you find phone/child if phone/child are lost. I should put one on my son's phone, really.
However - in this case - using the GPS to track YOU basically is freaky-deeky. So make sure that bloody phone is turned off.