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SD19 Moving on out!

just.his.wife's picture

Yep you read that right!

My 2 kids live in a small (and I mean tiny!)House that I own and they both attend college. SD19 is also in college she just started. We had my kids over for dinner last night and they point blank asked her why she had not joined the “home of the free and the kind-of brave”.

She told them she thought she wasn’t welcome due to a) they never said anything before and b) the way she had acted in the past. My son and daughter both shrugged, advised her she had grown a lot as a person, and she was more than welcome.

Logistics were worked out last night. Starting Saturday SD19 moves in with the ‘adult kids’. Utilities will be split three ways (electric and internet: will cost each of them about $50.00 a month combined) and everyone tosses in $100 for groceries, my son does the shopping (kid is thrifty!). Meals are typically fend for yourself. SD swears on weekends she will be making dinners and freezing them so they can ‘not eat like college kids’ and just unfreeze one premade dinner portion at a time… ok so homemade tv dinners LOL.

I do not charge the kids rent (house is paid off, taxes are about $600.00 annually) that’s my contribution to their household expenses. Also ensures they only have to work part time can go to school full time and have enough time to study.

Looks like it is three down… Three to go!

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realitycheckmom's picture

Woohoo!

just.his.wife's picture

Yeah... no.

Once they are OUT they are out. There is no returning to sender. Sorry, I did my parenting time, having hard times? Get a second job, budget better, get a roomie... but you ain't coming home. My kids are aware that is NOT an option.

just.his.wife's picture

It has worked out better than I ever dreamed. Buy an old beater fixer upper for pennies. Invest a few grand.

My kids put blood sweat and tears into the place getting it livable. And because they had to WORK for it.. they take care OF it.

overworkedmom's picture

Mine are only 6 & 8 right now but I am thinking if we get a foreclosure for super cheap, hubs is a contractor... I will have 3 in college at the same time... to $$ that would save for dorms. Hmmmmm.... we really need to start looking into this.

just.his.wife's picture

Smile In august we will have 4 in at the same time. Then after that ... as soon as one graduates, the next one goes in. DH initially could not see the logic in keeping the old house.

Now he does Smile

DaizyDuke's picture

You are sooooooo lucky!!!! I can't wait for the day that I can post that "SD is moving out!" It will seriously be right up there with the birth of BS3 and my wedding day as one of the best freaking damn days of my life!!!!!!

arjuna79's picture

and how awesome that your two made the deal with her. that's a whole different dynamic for her to live up to. Wonderful!

kathc's picture

WOW! It's great that you have that worked out! Hopefully she'll embrace the opportunity and your kids won't be bitching about her in a month Wink