Not even a slap on the wrist
For anyone.
BM got out and called DH gloating the judge let her go. Apparently he actually bought her excuse that she didn't know the PO trumped the CO. I would consider reporting her for violating the PO again, since she called the house phone that the kids have access too but what is the point? Next it will be oh she didn't understand that either. So to ensure she does not call the kids while we aren't home. I blocked her number from being able to call the house phone. Granted she can always use someone else's phone and perhaps it is immature, but I got a bit of a thrill when I blocked it.
And DH still has not confronted the kids over their part in it. He is of the opinion they are innocent and being let astray by their mother. :sick: Innocent my a$$.
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Dude, I am moving to an
:jawdrop:
Dude, I am moving to an island.... FDH can come, my kids can come... the skids will need to be sedated and blindfolded and may only come once a year... when I'm not there. JHW, you can come too!
I honestly don't know. I am
I honestly don't know. I am presuming she still has to face the charges for occupied burglary and cont. to del, but at this point it would not surprise me to hear the judge/magistrate whatever today dismissed it all.
Oh by the way, his kids are watching tv. With him. We are back to disney dad who feels the little darlings were traumatized today.
I am going to bed and locking the door. Maybe a night on the couch will be uncomfortable enough to have him pull his head back out of their asses.
Well she missed out on
Well she missed out on Mothers Day. And she knows full well what happens the next time she enters your home. She is only gloating because she gained a small victory.
She knows not to cross you again. And if you ever get face time with her remind her what happens the next time she lays a foot inside your door. She now has a 'record'.
^ great advice!
^ great advice!
Perhaps the kids are being
Perhaps the kids are being led astray by BM, but even with innocent children who are being led astray, we don't just allow them to continue on that path.
Even if your DH believes they are innocent, as a parent it's still his responsibility to correct them & get them back on the right path. Ignoring their actions isn't going to send any message to them except that it isn't a big deal & that what they did was fine.
I'm baffled by that judge. Maybe if BM hadn't continued on to the middle school...you know AFTER she was told at the HS she couldn't take her kids, I could see a judge going along with the whole "I'm too stupid to understand that a PO issued after the CO stands", but when she was stopped at the HS & was told no, then yes, she knew very well that she was going against a valid order. I mean, what would be the point in a PO if the previous order was going to trump it anyway?
This is so disappointing. I
This is so disappointing. I was envious of your being able to press charges for being in your house. I wish I had done the same when SD stole a key and broke into out house. I think the judge letting her go on the PO is so wrong. Was he aware of what she did earlier?
Me? I'd report everything.
Me? I'd report everything. Everything goes on record then they see a pattern. She'll just keep doing it.
If it were me? I'd welcome it. I want a reason to smack a bitch. Come to my house again, please.