So it's a long story but let me hit some key points to start off. I have a 5yo stepson that does not have biomom in his life at all. He calls me mom and I don't think that he even remembers his bio mom at all now. I've been in his life since he turned 2 and she only saw him about 3 times after he turned 2 and hasn't seen him since right before he turned 3.