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Does your SO know that you use this site?
I was just wondering how many users out there have SO that are aware of this special place. Are they ok with it or not?
I think if my BF knew he would be extremely hurt.
I'm just curious?
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A question about special needs kids....
I was wondering if any of you out there Sparents or Bio-parents.... have had children after having a special needs child such as autistic? Or your ex have more children after having an autistic child? Were the children or child after typical or autistic as well?
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Disneyland -- Happiest place on Earth?? I hope so........
So BF wants to take the family to Disney this year again. I, on the other hand, am very hesitant to spend that kind of money again. Why? Well let me tell you...
The aftermath
So it's like nothing happened Thursday night.....like there wasn't a huge argument or anything. Does he really think this stuff just goes away....that one day I will wake up and agree with him on everything, I won't want marriage or another child. But I'm still here so I guess subconsciously I am too??
I am just frustrated.....and I am just gonna start getting my ducks in a row.
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I think it may be over......just a vent....not about skids
Last night...I don't remember how we got on the topic of children , but we did and over a period of time it ended up in a full blown argument.
The problem....I want to marry and have another child(I have 1 bio-son and never married) and he does not(he's been divorced and has 2 kids). The bigger problem.....he never bothered to tell me this until AFTER we moved in together which I only agreed to do if marriage was in the horizon and he did not oppose; and never once said he didn't want more children only that it was something he would consider.
BF's daughter9
This child will not be quiet....she feels that she has to talk every second of every hour, of every day!! It's always about her...She interrupts, she's loud and gets louder if you're not paying attention to her at that very moment. My BF and I include ALL the kids in about everything we do, we don't want them to feel excluded but there comes a time when it's just 'adult stuff'(topic of conversations...etc.) She wants to know EVERYTHING!! She could be in another room and if she didn't quite get what you said, she comes over and asks 'what?, what did you say?'
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The BF's daughter's behavior this weekend......
I hosted a baby shower for my youngest sister this past weekend. I rented a suite because I live about 2 hours away and it would be easier for me to hold it close to everyone else. This would be an overnight trip so I figured it would be the perfect opportunity for the BF's daughter and I to have some one on one time.
We left Friday night and on the car ride over all was well...she was excited, I was excited, everything was cool.
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The boy and the doctor visit
So... the Friday before the Memorial Day weekend the BF and I take his son8 to a doctor specializing in austism cases. All went well...she basically confirmed what we've been telling BM about his diet and supplements. The next step is to get extensive bloodwork and some urine tests.
We're hoping that once we get the results back and with the Doctor's recommendations, the BM will finally cooperate. The boy8 responds so well and is much more receptive and alert when we have him for the summer and put him on the GF/CF diet and give him supplements.
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Oh words hurt.....
The kids are here for the Summer now. The bf went and got them Thursday night but they weren't out of school until Friday. now that's another story. The mom keeping daughter9 home because she was arguing with friends and it was getting catty!!! So she keeps her home from school!!!!! Arghhhh!!!! **sigh** for another post..... So anyway, BF takes the kids to grandma's house Friday and they want to spend the night, so they do.
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New to the site-not a step mom..but a step g/f??? is there such a thing
My b/f and I have been together almost four years now. I have one 12 yr. old from a previous relationship and he has an 8 and 9 yr old from his last marriage.