sd14 has been home for 3 weeks. It started okay at home. but at school different story. She was late to class 21x in the week she had to go which equals a nice little ticket for us. Then she got swats from her dad. She has had a really really crappy additude the rest of the time she can't go without arguing the last week has been okay she went to her meme's for 2 days. then her aunt's for 2 days. A calm peaceful days only came back to open presents then left again. But last night. She came and asked me for her meds after she came home from her me-me's i told her go eata ham sandwich then we would and told her " no if's no ands no buts no nothing go eat it" well guess what she didn't came back 20 mins later and asked again if she had it. dad got up and i looked at him and said she never ate. he said what the hell.well she cussed and fussed and balled about the damn sandwhich then made a huge bawling fit
dh says whats wrong.
she said nothing.
he said well then hush the crying up then.
she said "what now i can't freakin cry in my own damn house."
well i went in three times to my dh and said do u need to tap out.
30 mins of screaming and bawling and i hear a bam.
my table being freakin slammed on the damn ground, i went in there
looked at my table its broken. my husband lost his temper picked up and slammed down my table.
i said thanks honey. (yes wrong time to mention the fact u just broke my table"
he yelled and screamed at me.
I lost it
I told him "you and your f* daughter can leave" no one talks to me this way. I came in here 3 times to end this shit. I will not be yelled at or cussed at or screamed at by anyone in my own house.
SD14 was bawling i looked at her and screamed shut up sit down eat the damn sandwich take your meds and go to bed.
if you want to cry. then cry. if you don't want to be asked whats wrong. cry quietly. making a fucking scene doesn't do anything but rile everyone one up and all this shit has woke up the boys (2 and 5) i was so mad i was shaking.
it was everything to keep calm and not put my hands on her.

3 weeks this shit has been going on.
I will not go back to the same thing. fighting screaming. i can not do it. i can't put the boys through it.

DH has already had his fill today as well. she already had her but busted today over taking out the trash. its ridiculous.