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My wife asked me if I saw that blog on here about...

Jon-Boy's picture

It was about if you would consider sleeping with your ex.
I said no I didn't see that one.

She then sits there in bed with me and says, "I was thinking about that post."
And she had this look on her face, she was gazing out and up in the air at nothing, with a fingernail to the side of her mouth, and a half a smirk on her face.
I was sitting there in disbelief she was thinking about sleeping with her ex and only 9 months into our marriage.
I was now at this point lowering my eyebrows from the shocked look on my face to the now frowning face thinking WTF?
And she says, "If we ever get divorced? I am so sleeping with you again!"
I was like...
Oh GAWD! I thought you were considering this with your ex.
She was like oh Hell no! That would never happen!

(WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU WOMEN?)
Jeez! Damn near gave me a heart attack Loving Life!

LOL

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Amazed's picture

Awwww!! That's so cute! Not the heart attack part though;)"Venting without the desire to look within and improve your situation is simply venting to hear yourself bitch."

..."I'm not mean, you're just a sissy."

Wicked.Step.Monster's picture

Hahah! I love that! I soooo needed to read something great this morning!

stepmom008's picture

HA! My heart actually skipped a beat for you until you got to what she said. That's too funny!

"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".

Colorado Girl's picture

Our own fears are what drive us to insanity....

Your first thought SHOULD have been that it was about you. Smile

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

Jon-Boy's picture

Ha! we talked about that actually. (ANTS) Automatic negative thoughts.
And then realized the question was baited/implied. I am not her ex, why would I think it any other way.

But now that you mention it.
What if, my self thoughts in my head never implied anything.
And I had no concerns whether or not anything was or could be wrong.
Hmmm.
Sounds so peaceful.
I know I am not at that level. But I do see it.
Admittedly knowing I have been hurt before and a small level of fear is there in my heart.
What if I put out the smoldering embers of this fear? And put myself back to this peaceful level of trust.
It is so pure. It would be a gift back into our relationship.
At the level I am at currently, It feels vulnerable, like I would be so naive.
But I have never really thought about it like this before.
Thank you Colorado Girl.
I believe those embers are getting put out for good.

onehappygirl's picture

LOL!!! I SOOOOO would love to meet your wife!

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Jon-Boy's picture

She's a crack up! She is the best!
It's to bad all you great people on here are peppered oll over the world.
It would be fun to meet.
Put a face to the texts so to speak...