Ive been in this relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years. He has 2 daughters. one is 9 one is 5. I myself have 3 children which range between 15-12. 

now .... the 9 year old is beyond spoiled... i mean active cell phone... tons of shoes.. and clothes.. to the point she didnt wear them all and grew out of them. Now she only comes on the weekends.. and i dread it... its so terrible to say....but i do.... because no matter what the situation.. she lies... and he thinks oh she can do no wrong.... he believed her over my father when some thing was said...