So I'm in my first lesbian relationship. She is great (aside from things I'll talk about in another blog lol). We have been together 2 yrs, we live together and plan spending the rest of our lives together. I have 4 kids from a previous marriage. My oldest 3 are all teenagers  and they are comfortable with our relationship . My youngest is 8 and he ABSOLUTELY adores her. They have a bond like no other. Its beautiful. Well... Lately he has been asking her what she is to him. I told him she is his friend but she seems like more than that. I have never even thought about how to answer that.