I've been married for a year and a half.  He has 4 kids and I have 3. From day one he has always been sneaking around behind my back talking to BM which I finally got him to stop. It still bugs me because I feel like I cannot trust him. And it is from more than just that. A lot of lies and him being sneaky. After so many lies, how do you trust someone? I cannot stand when his kids come over. I miss being just me and my kids. Does it get better? It is worth leaving? I am just not happy even though he has gotten better in many ways.