I'm a SM and have been in the child's life since the day he was born. Our custody is 50/50 and of course the BM can't stand to be in a room with me. My DH and I attend every appointment due to the BM failing to communicate with us however recently she's made a point to say she doesn't want me there. Her reasoning is she believes it's the only time that the child gets to spend with his BM and my DH. I don't understand as the child has never known any different than her by herself and my husband and I together. Am I way off here?