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Submitted by jaja512 on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 8:47pm

Ok so I just got home to find my SD washing the dishes. I didn't ask her to her father did. Every time I walked in the kitchen she would stop washing the dishes and look right at me idk why but she kept doing it and her father made her sweep the floor and she had nuthing but attitude and she looks right at me like Wtf why does she keep looking at me when her father tells her to do something ugh this kids driving me crazy.

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Submitted by Shannon61 on Sun, 03/11/2012 - 5:05pm

I agree, she probably knows you encouraged her dad to make her do it . .and good for you. Making her do it now, will teach her accountability and responsibilty later! And she'll know what's expected under your roof.

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Submitted by bi on Sun, 03/11/2012 - 5:13pm

with my sd, she thought it was MY job to do everything, including pick up after her. when she was told to do the dishes, she said it wasn't fair that she had to come home from school and do OUR dishes. :O she didn't have to do them right after school, and she hardly ever did them at all, she made up lame excuses for why she "couldn't", but that's another story.

i guess it was ok for me to clean the kitchen every night before i left for work and get home in the morning to find it destroyed again. no problem for me to work my ass off all night then come home and have to cook for and clean up after everyone, hey it was my JOB. sd thought her only job was go to school when she felt like it and hang out with her friends all the time. God forbid she lift a finger.

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Submitted by bi on Sun, 03/11/2012 - 5:40pm

he laid into her about her comment about doing OUR dishes. a lot of the other stuff she did was that passive aggressive bullshit that a lot of men don't notice, but i knew what she was doing. when i would get pissed about her not doing dishes on her night to do them, he would do them for her. it used to grind me that he let her get away with it, but after i disengaged, i didn't even care as long as they got done and not by me or bd.