I was telling my therapist about a recent (but not unique) discussion with DH. He called me over and had several ways he could do something, and asked me for my opinion. I picked one I thought was fine. He laid out some more arguments for the other ways, one in particular. Okay, with new info I said that my opinion was for two of the ways. 

DH kept going. I asked if he was just trying to work through the options by talking. Nope he said he wanted my preference. I told him mine again. He gave me more info and kept leaning toward a different option. 

I said he should just tell me which answer he wanted so we could stop this conversation as I was done going around and around. 'Cause he definitely wanted his answer not my opinion.

The therapist laughed and then asked me if I really said that. Yup. I did. I'm wondering if she's gonna try that at home.