This morning in conversation with DH it was pertinent to bring up again how he assumes I have a hidden agenda/bad intentions behind what I say. He denied it (duh). Not two minutes later I started a sentence with "It's okay to be sad..." but didn't get to finish it because DH finished it for me with a phrase that very obviously was a bad spin, showed that he was making assumptions about what I am thinking, and that he assumes I'm thinking the worst.

DH: [slight look on his face that may mean he recognizes what he just did]

Me: Thank you. I'm happy you said that.

DH: [confused look on his face]

Me: You just made my point so you cannot keep telling me you don't do those things.