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The move

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Submitted by islandgal2021 on Tue, 07/13/2021 - 12:18am

SO and I discussed moving in together – he was pretty much spending most nights at my place and things were progressing smoothly.  We’d been together for 6 months by then, but knew eachother longer than that, so we were ready.  He had also had enough of the tweevils, who were still giving him holy hell.  He was getting completely feddup with their antics and told them we were planning to be together, no matter what it took.  

Next weekend away

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Submitted by islandgal2021 on Mon, 07/05/2021 - 10:32pm

SO decided he wanted to take me away for a weekend over the Xmas break.  He had spent Xmas eve with the tweevils (evil twins) where they booked dinner at a restaurant. I spent it with my Sons and grandkids having a BBQ.  SO joined us after dinner. 

When SO got there, he told me he had lost his phone.  He wanted to call me after the restaurant to see if we needed any beers, as he was going to the bottle shop on the way.  I rang the restaurant and they told me they still had not found it.

The aftermath from the restaurant..

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Submitted by islandgal2021 on Mon, 06/28/2021 - 9:58pm

On Sunday we were still reeling from the restaurant.  SO was very subdued and quiet.  I was still steaming but stayed calm – just trying to absorb everything that happened.  I also realised I’d lost my phone.  I had it with me at the restaurant and had used it to take a few photos of the floral arrangements at the restaurant.  I discovered it missing when we returned home.  Rang the restaurant but they didn’t have it.  I haven’t seen it since – so not sure what the hell happened to it.

SO decided he would have a talk with the twins.  That went down well – not.

Challenge One – the Restaurant (warning - long)

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Submitted by islandgal2021 on Wed, 06/23/2021 - 7:06pm

 

I live in a building that has a huge restaurant/cocktail bar on the ground floor.  There are 4 restaurants as well as the bar.  1 restaurant is extremely expensive, where you have to book a table as it gets booked out quickly.  SO and I have eaten there once.

Twins decided they also wanted to eat at that same expensive restaurant (with SO paying of course).  SO was thrilled as he thought this would be a way for us to get together and “connect”.  They made the booking for 6.30pm.

Dating & backlash..

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Submitted by islandgal2021 on Sun, 06/20/2021 - 6:41pm

I began spending more time with SO when my Son would go over – this was over 8 months or so.  Just mostly on a Saturday arvo, where we’d sit and have a chat before I’d head back to my place.  Most of these times were also when the twins were around.

My eldest Son told me that SO was interested, and my automatic response was “oh hell no! he has TWO – not ONE – but TWO DAUGHTERS – and they are TWINS ! Are you insane?!! Do you think I am? Fuck no!”

The Twins

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Submitted by islandgal2021 on Thu, 06/17/2021 - 11:30pm

When I first met the twins, they were friendly and outgoing - we got along well.  They also like my eldest son whom they’ve known for about 4 years.

SO's history

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Submitted by islandgal2021 on Wed, 06/16/2021 - 6:14pm

Hi Stalkers... I'm sorry it took a while.. but.. here it is..

He got married in his early 20’s.  BM was 8 months pregnant with the twins, when she fell in love with a prisoner and left SO when prisoner was released.  Their relationship was filled with violence and drama which ended when prisoner burned BM’s house to the ground. 

Twins remained living with BM and spent every weekend with SO, who would pick them up and drop them back.

My journey begins .. again

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Submitted by islandgal2021 on Thu, 06/10/2021 - 11:25pm

The introduction.

Hello there steptalkers – it’s been a while – I didn’t think I’d be back – but well, fate had other ideas lol! So.. to recap – I haven’t seen my ex-SO since I kicked his Disney-dad bitching ass out of my house 4 years ago.  I dated here and there but nothing serious.  Until I met my eldest Son’s boss.  My Son has known SO for 4-5 years and they get along like a house on fire.

I’m going to be breaking this up into segments, or this will turn into a flamin novel.