I have a 12 year old daughter from a previous relationship..when my husband and I began dating she was 8 years old...he has a 20 year old son from a previous marriage but he lived with his mother in another city...my husband and I have a 2 year old son together...after we married, his older son moved in..,(hes very smart but flunked out of college his first year and doesnt know any responsibility...my 12 year old daughter acts like she has more sense than he does)...my husband didn't communicate anything with me..he basically told me that his son was coming to stay for 3 months until he