So my LO gets baptized tomorrow. DH won't be there due to work (we have a couple vacations planned & he doesn't get sick or vacation time.) DH also doesn't believe a baptism really matters until a person can chose it for themselves. We have SD this week (50/50 week on & week off all year long). DH asks me if I'm taking SD12 with me to church. I said I will if she wants to go as it is her little sister. He asks if I talked to her about it. My response; nope!

I made it very clear I was disengaging from all of that. SD, DH, and BM have made way too many last minute changes to my plans and schedule that he was advised on numerous occasions that I would no longer be planning for SD and all arrangements including her would be his responsibility.

This was 4 hours ago. DH never talked to SD and she has now "put herself to bed" so she can keep her IPhone in her room.

1. I heard SD ask DH about the baptism on the calendar on Tuesday, even though she knows I'm the one that's here on Sundays (I've had her on the weekends for 4 years now)
2. She has no nice clothes here because everything nice goes to BMs never to be seen again. DH made no arrangements to make sure she had the clothes.

Should be an interesting day tomorrow. DH will undoubtedly get mad if I go without her and don't wake her up and ask her if she wants to go. Nevertheless all my family and friends of the family will be there to see this 12 year old show up in mismatched shorts and tshirt, while my LO shows up in her baptism dress.

Oh the joys!