Over the years I have tried so hard to get along with DH's crazy ex wife. No matter how hard I try to make her happy, I can never please her. She has a completely distorted view on reality. To her, the situation is so different from how things actually are. I just do not get it?!? The most recent example, is this past holiday weekend. Last weekend (our weekend for my two ss's), we were going to go camping. She heard our plans and called me to negotiate a deal so that our two boys could go to their last soccer game of the season.