BM has already attempted to screw up for this month for pick ups. However we don't fuss with her any more - we drive down get a receipt when we get there and one when we leave. Then we fax it to the lawyer as ammo in the next court case.

She has already filed child support court twice - one for medical - it was dismissed and again for income - it will probably be dismissed as well. We just left court Sept 09 for the same things.

NOW - in Jan/Feb - this and next weekend - she has to drive back to back... already making it an issue - she will probably not drive one of the weekends..... will give that to the lawyer for the judge

March - she attempted to take DH's two weekends - she has a fashion show and dance comp scheduled and said she was not driving........ DH got in writing to get his full weekends on the 1st and 2nd weekends of the months and then we will attend her (SD) events as well. (Sure it will be drama then since BM hates to drive to meet DH for exchanges as court states)

April - DH gets his visitation and spring break as ordered in the court order. BM called on yesterday and basically let us know she is not happy because SD's birthday falls during this time and she is not happy DH gets spring break and is taking it this year....

So now we know she is going to give DH an issue. We are planning a orlando, disney, and cruise for that trip in conjunction with SD's Bday. This is the first time DH will be able to spend SD's birthday with her..... SO BM is already calling trying to ruin it for him. I could not believe she is plotting out this far but then again why not.

We have talked to the lawyer.... and he told DH and myself to continue to keep our cool and document document document everything. Even now that she refuses to send SD's med anymore since they are only necessary at her house (as she told DH - what an idiot) and we didn't pay for them. Since the new court order specifically orders her to quit alienating DH and his family and to follow the court order - we more than likely will be in cour by the summer as she does not agree with him getting the additional time in the last hearing (September) and already mentioned putting SD in gymnastics that as she claims has camps in the summer - that as she says - overrides his court ordered visitation.

It never stops with this chick.......... So now we just wait. I am sure she will have us in court for some crazy lie before spring break or after... without a doubt.