DAMN - Must you lie about everything....... Geez
So DH finally gets SD last weekend after BM withheld DH's visitation last month. AND puts some medical receipts in SD's bag at the bottom under the clothes.
So DH has to pay 55% of that costs which is no problem. The receipts came up to like $150.00. So before he made a payment we called to verify the meds were actually for SD.
Only one of the receipts was for SD and that only came up to $35.00. The other amount was not for SD at all. They could not tell us who - but re-verified it was not for meds prescribed to SD.
WHAT?!?!?! So we are like whatever. We know she was trying to get more money through the courts but couldn't as DH is actually due a decrease. AND she was told not to attempt again for 3 years - so that would mean 2012. Child support enforecement and the courts are not giving you an increase chic. SO NOW - SHE RESORTS TO LYING ABOUT RECEIPTS TO GET EXTRA MONIES.
She is just amazing. At any rate - we are mailing her the 55% of what was verified as SD's medical costs - signature confirmation in a money order. AND kept a copy of every thing for our records. I just could not believe she attempted to pass off extra costs as SD's like DH would not verify the amounts after every thing she has done.
So now we are waiting to see just what she will pull now - since last month she took visitation - what will it be this month. I can bet anything that once she gets the point that DH found out she was lying she is going to be pissed and ACT OUT AGAIN.
Oh well, we just continue to document and will take it to court as well. Geez! I guess these type women never cease.
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You have a court date coming
You have a court date coming up soon don't you? When is it?
I'm not surprised by anything that your BM does anymore! She sounds like a real wackjob!!!
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I would have her ovaries for
I would have her ovaries for this stunt.
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Good LORD not her ovaries!!
Good LORD not her ovaries!!
She just keeps hanging
She just keeps hanging herself. All good evidence for court.
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Our BM tried something
Our BM tried something similar. It's like they think DH is so dumb he'll never figure it out!
In our case, BM sent an itemized list of expenses for which she wanted DH to pay half. Some of them were future anticipated expenses! What?! And only one receipt, for a prescription, that didn't even have SD's name on it. DH went ahead and paid that one but didn't give her any of the other money. And she had the nerve to call DH up and yell at him about not paying the rest. He told her we would as soon as she sent receipts. That never happened. So that tells me one of two things: She didn't keep the receipts (not likely, she's out for every penny she can get) or she was lying (ding, ding, ding).
Everyone - No court case yet
Everyone - No court case yet - we are building the case against her. I am sure we will be in court before summer's end though... She continues to get worse and worse all the time.
Thewife - her ovaries - lol that was funny.
Anita - Good point - same thing i say.... she continues to hang herself for court - especially since the last court date in Sept. Hey - she is making her bed - and she will have to lie in it.... when the time is right.
Just-A-Mom & Elizabeth - Yeah i feel it is fraud as well. I just don't think she thought DH was going to call and verify the information. But since he did - we didn't tell her we know she is attempting to commit fraud. DH paid the portion he is too pay which is about $50.00 less then she tried to get. Knowing her - she will attempt to take DH to child support court on that... and we will then hand the judge the information of the fraud and the policy number with the number to verify the information.
We are going to just let her answer to the judge why she tried to pull this crap on DH yet again.
I cant wait to hear the excuse or lie on this one.
********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************
Yikes! My BM would keep
Yikes! My BM would keep several months worth of receipts and give them to us all at once and demand her money NOW! So, we started contacting the service providers (dr's, dentists, etc.) and paying our 1/2 directly to them. Then BM had to work with the providers to get her 1/2 of the money back. Our BM is also a liar (she would handwrite new totals on all the bills) so this is how we make sure that she isn't fudging the numbers.
We're dealing with that
We're dealing with that right now - a spreadsheet for all of 2009 with some EOBs from insurance, no receipts, attorney costs for SS getting into trouble - grand total $7250.
Most of her figures don't even add up, no name on receipts, no proof she's paid anything to get reimbursed for - with a nice little note at the bottom:
$7250 Payable to BM - Net 14 Days
NET 14 DAYS - She's gotta' a lot of balls!!!
Of course we received well over a month ago and she keeps calling for $$. According to our figures and everything we can verify is for SS - his portion is only $400 for the year. Greedy stupid whore!