Hello everyone - I am not sure where to start, so I am just going to introduce myself to everyone. I have a BF (not husband) who has two children (boy, 15 and girl, 13) that I have been involved with for 7 years. We have not married, reason I will explain later if needed (medical). He has a "wonderful" ex wife. Things are absolutely horrible at home. Constant fighting between him and I now for years it seems. His kids, are nuts (I dont know of a nice way to put it), threats to call DHS etc if they dont get their way on anyone that crosses their path (bf, bm, sm, siblings etc).