We had SD6 18 days and 14 nights in April. The CO says 8 days 6 nights We even had her for the first 6 days and 5 nights in May and as soon as DH mentioned changing placement to make this more permanent, at least for the summer, out came the lies. "She's already signed up for summer school, she's in a bunch of extra curricular programs, I am a good mother." Never mind the letter I have from the district that says she isn't, or the fact that she hasn't signed her up because she insists on having her in the daycare where she works and they don't bus to summer school. Who cares about all of the behavioral and emotional problems that SD had a result of having mommy in the next room or how that turned her into an entitled brat that we've spent the last ten months trying to change. BM knows best.

Now, the hag won't let DH see her at all. This was the first weekend BM had SD6 in a month and she pawned her off on grandma Friday night, which we only found out about because DH asked the hag to have SD call him, which of course was asking too much. Asked if we could take her out to breakfast Saturday morning but she wasn't there. Maybe we can have her Saturday night then? Nope she has a play date. How about Sunday evening; we got the I'm her mother and I want to spend all of Mother's Day with her. Okay what about Monday night? 'I'll have to check my schedule.' SERIOUSLY?! DH let it go until noon when he texted to follow up. No response until he said, well I guess I'll pick her up unless you let me know otherwise. Ten minutes before we're supposed to leave to get her the hag says "No, I want to visit with her today." Who 'visits with their kid?!' Is that BM speak for ignore her while I text my douchebag boyfriend but I just don't want you to have her because you insulted my parenting skills?

Apparently figuring out who to dump your kid off on every weekend while you live like a 22 year old despite the fact that you're 30 is a skill now. Ha! Wouldn't care if the hag would just let us take her but now that DH has mentioned a scenario that doesn't involve her getting beer money on a child support card, she most certainly can't let SD come over here. Who cares what SD6 wants, what's important is that BM feels insulted by the truth so both SD6 and DH should be punished.

On a lighter note SS14 suggested that instead of using the word trash, we use BM's name. So we have a BM can, in which we put BM bags. When the BM is full, someone has to take the BM out. Jerks leaving BM all over our lawn. Now, who around here has a good supplier of voodoo dolls?

Rant over.