Here's the scoop. I'm divorced with an 11 year old son whose father doesn't want to have anything to do with him AND his father lost all parental rights anyway. I'm dating my best friend, whom I've known for 13 years, we've been dating for 2.5 years. He has a daugter who is 8 1/2. I've known her mom as well for 13 years and we have NEVER liked each other. A couple of months after we started dating, my boyfriend moved in with me. A couple months later, October to be exact, his daughter was abandoned on our front porch, by her mother.