Ok here it goes got an email from our SD today and she was saying that its her wedding and that she wants her father to share in the walking down the isle with her SD, which would be ok but this is the man that took her mom away from both children and the bio father my DH raised them. The kids were 9 mos and 3 at the time now they are 29 (the boy) and 25 (the girl) and that mother hadn't been in contact with them until they were 16 when they left us!!