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IAmALady77's picture

BM txts SO ALL day for the past 2 days begging him to take SD today and tomorrow while she is at work. Ok, no problem, hes been at work and busy with the kitchen so he finally got back to her yesterday and tells her yes, no problem he will take her today and tomorrow. BM usually just drops SD off at fmils house on her way to work and the fmil brings SD to our house on HER way to work at 8am. No big deal, its convienenent for everyone. WEll BM texts SO last night and says that she may or may not bring SD today because BM is not feeling well. SO says, thats fine just let fmil know so she is not sitting around waiting for you. BM says ok.

Woke up at 8am this morning and surprise no SD! Called fmil and surprise! BM did not even bother to call or text to tell her she wasnt coming.

SO gets a text from BM about 20 minutes ago saying "Im not going to need you today or tomorrow, see you 5."

really? NEED? freaking bitch. this isn't that big of a deal but I cant wait to show the judge this when she wants to spout off that we shouldnt have visitation because our house isnt "safe"...again. Really? Its safe when she "needs" it to be.

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stepmama2one's picture

Oh I know how that feels. BM used to keep Sd away from my husband for months at a time and then out of the blue calls and says she is sick or she has something that has come up so she wants to know if my husband can watch SD!! What the hell?? Bitch he isnt a fucking babysitter! He is her father!

IAmALady77's picture

^right?? soooo annoying, but good for my SO! He texted her saying why didnt she call his mom this morning when she said she would? BM says she didnt wake up till 9 and shes been throwing up for the past 30 hours (slight exxageration obviously). SO tells her it would be nice if she would apologize to FMIL because you know, thats the polite thing to do and she sends this: "Bullshit. Im not apologizing for shit. "SO" im sick and i wasnt awake. Kiss my ass"

such a lovely girl.
its pretty ridiculous, not to pick up a damn phone. Im super sick right now too and left work early (love michigan winters) but I still took care of business. excuses lol.

planningMyEscape's picture

First of all, what a bitchy thing for her to do.

Second...what is it like having a BM who works???????????????? Ours doesn't know the meaning of that word.

IAmALady77's picture

lol pretty similar to having a BM that doesnt work I would imagine. She keeps losing her jobs and lies about when she is actually working so who knows? #1 pet peeve=laziness. cant stand it :/